PEGGING for BEGINNERS and EXPERTS

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Whether you're a seasoned peg-ee or new to the sport, you might be on the lookout for pegging positions to try. The good news is, you have plenty of options, each allowing for different sensations and very sexy views.

But pegging is not just for straight couples keen to experiment with their kinky side. Anyone can join in the pegging party. 'Many think that pegging is only for people with a vagina, but really it can be for anyone regardless of their sexual orientation and genitals,' says Dr Mafe Peraza Godoy, a urologist, sexual medicine expert and Co-Founder of the Healthy Pleasure Group. I recently stumbled on an educational pegging series and became curious… Would you be open to watching it with me?” Sex toys are considered novelty items, which means they aren’t regulated by the Food and Drug Administration (FDA). That means you have to figure out if the material of the toy is body-safe or porous. No, you can’t just show up on your boo’s doorstep strapped-on or sling a dildo to them mid-romp. Yes, you have to bring it up ahead of time.For people who may have difficulty wearing a harness and/or thrusting, some sex toy companies are making arm harnesses, and other more accessible options. Dr. Jess agrees. She says, “I like this position as it allows the ‘mounter’ to exercise a good amount of control of the depth and rhythm of penetration. Wear a vibrating c*** ring for this one to provide extra pleasurable sensations as the top partner grinds against his shaft.” Fancy a light pegging? No we're not referring to the laundry. In 21st century lexicon pegging also means the sexual practice in which a woman performs anal sex on a man by penetrating his anus with a strap-on dildo, according to Wikipedia.

Just make sure you follow best hygiene practices when you experiment. Most importantly: If you’re going to switch holes—such as from anus to mouth—wash the dildo, change condoms, or swap out the dildo entirely. 10. Explore different kinds of strap-ons. It really helps if the first time you wear your strap-on isn’t during sex. You should give yourself time to get familiar with what it’s like to wear a harness. “It’s going to feel weird at first,” Ashley Cobb, founder and host of Sex With Ashley and sex toy reviewer, tells SELF. “Wear your harness around the house as you do non-sexual activities, such as washing dishes or watching TV. The more comfortable you are with it on your own, the easier it will be to use it with a partner.” 3. Watch videos of people using strap-ons. In the absence of good lighting, your homemade romp might be something you'd rather was kept under wraps. Some people also use pegging as a way to engage in sex that affirms their nonbinary or trans identity, which is vulnerable in its own right,” he adds. When you’re buying a strap-on, you usually shop for the harness and dildo separately. But if you’re new to strap-ons or just want something super easy, plenty of beginner kits include both pieces. These sets from Lovehoney and Tracey Cox are excellent, affordable options.

5. Try strap-friendly positions.

Pegging "doesn't magically change your sexuality," said nightlife entrepreneur and former professional dominatrix Venus Cuffs. "The goal is to have fun with each other and safety, preparation, and communication allow you to focus on pleasure and enjoying yourselves together." Your dildo should align with your needs and desires for harness play. To reiterate, if you have a partner who you’re planning to use the dildo on or with, take them to the store if you. Communication: Especially when you’re first starting out. Move slowly and ask the receiver how it’s going. Unlike a penis, you can’t totally feel what’s happening inside the receiver, which is one of the reasons communication is so important during pegging.